Comments for Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com How are Christian men treating their wives? Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:10:44 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by muleskinner61 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-18 muleskinner61 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:10:44 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-18 Forgot to proof read my response so I thought I clear up some of the mixed up sentences above. 1st paraghap:: Me claiming to know Christ,,,, should read Many 6th paraghap:: The example,,,, I someone did something really really bad to your child what would you feel or think? 8th paragraph:::there are many men that want their faces to the cross but thier wifes face is between them and the cross. Forgot to proof read my response so I thought I clear up some of the mixed up sentences above.

1st paraghap:: Me claiming to know Christ,,,, should read Many

6th paraghap:: The example,,,, I someone did something really really bad to your child what would you feel or think?

8th paragraph:::there are many men that want their faces to the cross but thier wifes face is between them and the cross.

]]> Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by muleskinner61 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-17 muleskinner61 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:55:02 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-17 OK, I need a little help here. I know there are cases of the husband not loving his wife at Christ loved the church, and after reading the story on the pastor that was abusing his daughter it is evident he didn't love his wife or child. I am sure there are many of these extreme stories in our world. Me claiming to know Christ but still continue to live their lives like they did before they knew him and even worse. I am really tried of all the male bashing that is going against Christian men. We are not perfect. We will never be like Christ. Jesus say this himself. While we are in these bodies we will never be perfect. All we can do is strive to be more like Christ and to follow his examples. But if a wife thinks her husband is going to be someone she read about in a Fairyland story then she really needs to come to terms and realize that no one is perfect. I have seen really good men make bad mistakes. I know real Godly men that have some bad thoughts. We are human and we make mistakes. It is by Gods Grace that we saved and loved. I am still learning to offer Grace to others and I do see improvements. My wife doesn't because I don't run home and tell her about every piece of Grace I extend or the good I have done. ( your right hand shouldn't know what your left is doing) . But if there is a Mr. Perfect out there, i would challenge him on some of these subjects: Has he ever looked at a woman or her body in an offesive manner. Has he ever been angered or upset with someone. Has he ever told a dirty joke or had a dirty thought. I don't believe that man exists. Before you can love someone like Christ loves the church then you must first be like Christ. I don't believe Christ ever had a dirty thought or idea. I don't believe he ever talked about someone behind there backs or said something bad. He was and is perfect. I am not. He was Gods own son. I am not. I have been adopted into his kingdom and he is my father. We husbands are to love our wifes like christ loved the church. but if we are to love like that then we must also love others on the same level. And there are very few men that can love on that level. Ex: If someone did something really really terrible what would you feel or think? I will love my wife like Christ loves the chruch with what I am able to with how I am led by the Holy Spirit. I have been a Christian for the pasts 25 years and love the lord. I read my bible everyday, not because I have to but because I want to hear what the Lord has to say to me. I fail daily but I ask for his forgiveness and pick up the pieces and try to work continuesly toward the goal he has for me. There are times i know I am lost and there are time when i know I am on the right track. This is my opinion about Husbands loving their wifes as Christ loves the Church but I think many wifes have taken this verse completely out of proportion. We men do love our wifes and want to take care of you but that doesn't mean letting you spend as you wish or gossip as you want or etc. You let us love you and you'll see. We married you TO love you. But some women will not let their husbands be the man God want them to be. They want to control or manupulate them when they do want something and it doesn't go their way. God is working in your man but you need to move out of the way and let God do his work. God is planting seeds in all of us Christian men and he doesn't need your help. He created the world without you and he can deal with your husband. This may sound a little strong but I truely believe that there are alot of men that want to be led by the Holy Ghost. They want there faces at the foot of the cross but have there faces between them and the cross. I apolize if I have stepped on anyone feet but this is a real issue with me. I normally wouldn't have responded, But God is in control and maybe he led me to make a response to this message. Again forgive me if i have offended you or said something that you dissagree with. Some times I come accross a little to strong but I contripute that to my 36 years with the DoD. Last note here: Wifes Take care of what YOU are suppose to do according to what the Bible and let the men take care of what WE are suppost to do. Let God change us, not you. Thank you and may God bless you all OK, I need a little help here. I know there are cases of the husband not loving his wife at Christ loved the church, and after reading the story on the pastor that was abusing his daughter it is evident he didn’t love his wife or child. I am sure there are many of these extreme stories in our world. Me claiming to know Christ but still continue to live their lives like they did before they knew him and even worse.
I am really tried of all the male bashing that is going against Christian men. We are not perfect. We will never be like Christ. Jesus say this himself. While we are in these bodies we will never be perfect. All we can do is strive to be more like Christ and to follow his examples. But if a wife thinks her husband is going to be someone she read about in a Fairyland story then she really needs to come to terms and realize that no one is perfect.
I have seen really good men make bad mistakes. I know real Godly men that have some bad thoughts. We are human and we make mistakes. It is by Gods Grace that we saved and loved.
I am still learning to offer Grace to others and I do see improvements. My wife doesn’t because I don’t run home and tell her about every piece of Grace I extend or the good I have done. ( your right hand shouldn’t know what your left is doing) . But if there is a Mr. Perfect out there, i would challenge him on some of these subjects: Has he ever looked at a woman or her body in an offesive manner. Has he ever been angered or upset with someone. Has he ever told a dirty joke or had a dirty thought.
I don’t believe that man exists. Before you can love someone like Christ loves the church then you must first be like Christ. I don’t believe Christ ever had a dirty thought or idea. I don’t believe he ever talked about someone behind there backs or said something bad. He was and is perfect. I am not. He was Gods own son. I am not. I have been adopted into his kingdom and he is my father.
We husbands are to love our wifes like christ loved the church. but if we are to love like that then we must also love others on the same level.
And there are very few men that can love on that level. Ex: If someone did something really really terrible what would you feel or think?
I will love my wife like Christ loves the chruch with what I am able to with how I am led by the Holy Spirit. I have been a Christian for the pasts 25 years and love the lord. I read my bible everyday, not because I have to but because I want to hear what the Lord has to say to me. I fail daily but I ask for his forgiveness and pick up the pieces and try to work continuesly toward the goal he has for me. There are times i know I am lost and there are time when i know I am on the right track.
This is my opinion about Husbands loving their wifes as Christ loves the Church but I think many wifes have taken this verse completely out of proportion. We men do love our wifes and want to take care of you but that doesn’t mean letting you spend as you wish or gossip as you want or etc. You let us love you and you’ll see. We married you TO love you. But some women will not let their husbands be the man God want them to be. They want to control or manupulate them when they do want something and it doesn’t go their way. God is working in your man but you need to move out of the way and let God do his work. God is planting seeds in all of us Christian men and he doesn’t need your help. He created the world without you and he can deal with your husband. This may sound a little strong but I truely believe that there are alot of men that want to be led by the Holy Ghost. They want there faces at the foot of the cross but have there faces between them and the cross.
I apolize if I have stepped on anyone feet but this is a real issue with me. I normally wouldn’t have responded, But God is in control and maybe he led me to make a response to this message.
Again forgive me if i have offended you or said something that you dissagree with. Some times I come accross a little to strong but I contripute that to my 36 years with the DoD.
Last note here: Wifes Take care of what YOU are suppose to do according to what the Bible and let the men take care of what WE are suppost to do. Let God change us, not you.
Thank you and may God bless you all

]]> Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by drewme http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-16 drewme Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:42:29 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-16 How can you love a hateful woman? She yells instead of ask. She demands rather than ask. Nothing you do can please her she finds fault in all you do. When I do as she asks she condems. why is she so hateful? She falsely accusses me of things I never even knew happened, and GOD knows she accusses me a lot and she is wrong! I pitty the day GOD shows her of her mistakes!! How can you love a hateful woman? She yells instead of ask. She demands rather than ask. Nothing you do can please her she finds fault in all you do. When I do as she asks she condems. why is she so hateful? She falsely accusses me of things I never even knew happened, and GOD knows she accusses me a lot and she is wrong! I pitty the day GOD shows her of her mistakes!!

]]> Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by jhbrut http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-15 jhbrut Tue, 10 Jun 2008 20:43:08 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-15 Thank you for this article. I've been a Christian for about 6 months now. I started out with lots of fire and enthusiasm and it's already starting to fizzle. This article made me realize that it's probably the way that I treat my wife. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of these guys that expects her to serve me. Actually, I prefer that she doesn't. It's just that I get so grumpy when she gets home. I don't want to talk to her and I don't want her to talk to me. I'm a real asshole (excuse the language), but I can't seem to change, no matter how hard I try. I try to think about what made me fall in love with her, and I can't. I bought her a gift certificate today to a spa so she can get a massage. I know she'll be happy to get it, but I'll just get grumpy again. I don't know what's wrong with me. She's a great woman and she deserves someone so much better than me. I just pray that God can take away my depression so I can move on and take care of my wife like I should. Thank you for this article. I’ve been a Christian for about 6 months now. I started out with lots of fire and enthusiasm and it’s already starting to fizzle. This article made me realize that it’s probably the way that I treat my wife. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not one of these guys that expects her to serve me. Actually, I prefer that she doesn’t. It’s just that I get so grumpy when she gets home. I don’t want to talk to her and I don’t want her to talk to me. I’m a real asshole (excuse the language), but I can’t seem to change, no matter how hard I try. I try to think about what made me fall in love with her, and I can’t. I bought her a gift certificate today to a spa so she can get a massage. I know she’ll be happy to get it, but I’ll just get grumpy again. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. She’s a great woman and she deserves someone so much better than me. I just pray that God can take away my depression so I can move on and take care of my wife like I should.

]]> Comment on About this site by skippingstone http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/about/#comment-13 skippingstone Wed, 14 May 2008 02:00:14 +0000 #comment-13 Well it has stirred a fire in me, yet I am not sure what to do other than study more and more and work on my love and faith for and in Christ. I would love some feed back, yet as you said you are not a counselor. Having said all of nothing ( refering to me ) I will leave you to continue your ministry. God Bless you Brother! Well it has stirred a fire in me, yet I am not sure what to do other than study more and more and work on my love and faith for and in Christ. I would love some feed back, yet as you said you are not a counselor. Having said all of nothing ( refering to me ) I will leave you to continue your ministry. God Bless you Brother!

]]> Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by mikebforjesus http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-12 mikebforjesus Sun, 30 Mar 2008 21:04:29 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-12 I needed to hear this. Our first ministry is to our family. Thanks. In Jesus, mike b. I needed to hear this. Our first ministry is to our family. Thanks.

In Jesus,

mike b.

]]> Comment on If your wife can’t see Christ’s love in your life, it’s time to get with the program by Marmie http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-3 Marmie Tue, 05 Jun 2007 14:58:52 +0000 http://loveyourwife.wordpress.com/2007/04/14/hello-world/#comment-3 Thank you for taking a strong Biblical stand on a neglected and essential issue. If even half of Christian husbands loved as they should, Christianity would be revolutionized in America. Thanks again. I hit on this just a bit on my blog at www.woychikstuff.wordpress.com. Thank you for taking a strong Biblical stand on a neglected and essential issue. If even half of Christian husbands loved as they should, Christianity would be revolutionized in America. Thanks again. I hit on this just a bit on my blog at http://www.woychikstuff.wordpress.com.

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